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What Is It Really Like To Be a DIY Bride?

When it comes to weddings, the “Do It Yourself” trend is here to stay. With more and more couples wanting to incorporate personalized aspects into every part of their day, DIY weddings seems to be the way to go. In addition to making their wedding personalized, many couples are planning weddings with limited budgets or at non-traditional wedding venues, and so, DIYing elements is a perfect fit.
 

Let’s not forget, too, that for the bride or groom who just have a knack for crafting or making things, a wedding in the perfect playground to let your creative juices flow. It was for me.
 

However, DIYing your wedding is not always as easy or as “perfect” as you think it’s going to be. While, what we see in magazines or on sites like Pinterest are beautiful and are great for inspiration, when it comes to actually recreating what you see and doing it yourself, it’s not always that easy. We asked two Hudson Valley DIY brides – Michelle from Suffern, and Lauren from Poughkeepsie – to give their real, first-hand experience on what it was like making their wedding come to life.
 

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Why did you DIY?

Photo Credit: Susan Pleiman

Michelle – “DIY has always been in my blood. I am a crafter at heart, and absolutely love to create things and be able to put my own personal spin on it. If I can make it, why buy it? It means so much more when you can personalize things. Plus, it gives a sense of empowerment and gratification. Creativity is so important to me; it keeps my sanity! After finishing a project, what’s better than admiring it and saying ‘WOW!!! I did that!’ ”
 

Lauren – “The biggest thing that inspired me to go DIY with our wedding was seeing all of the amazing ideas on Pinterest and thinking, ‘Why spend all that money when we can do most of this ourselves?’ I knew finding a stylist for the ideas I liked would cost an arm and a leg and I figured, I’m great at copying ideas, why not do it myself?”
 

What did you DIY?

Photo Credit: Susan Pleiman

Michelle – “I wanted to carry a unique bouquet that would last forever. That’s when I came up with my brooch bouquet idea. I had asked my friends, family, and patients to donate their favorite pieces just to make it THAT much more special. Another thing that I made were my invitations.
 

“The theme of the wedding was ‘rustic-vintage,’ so there was a lot of lace, doilies, burlap, wood, and chalkboard that was used. I made all the menus, the fans, the place cards, the ‘table numbers,’ the takeaways and had my centerpieces bought from Bed Bath & Beyond with Shoprite flowers in the vases.’
 

“I decided to have each table with ‘Love’ in different languages in the center. The ‘Love’ phrase took place of the table numbers. For the place cards, I had small honey jars with squares of lace on top, complete with twine wrapped around. They held little tags with my guests’ names and the ‘Love’ phrase in whichever language their table had on it.
 

“We had a ‘photo area,’ in front of the fireplace mantle where the reception was held. I had made all sorts of props on long dowels complete with eyeglasses, old-fashioned mustaches, chalkboards, and large picture frames for people to hold up in front of them…I wanted to have a cute takeaway for the end of the night, so we went with milk and cookies.”
 

Lauren – “Personally, I made the bridesmaids’ bouquets, I did my own makeup, I made all the signs and decorations, set the tables and their settings up myself, I made all the decorations for the centerpieces. We had my husband’s aunt make all the desserts and the cakes and his friend make all the food (taco bar). We set up the ceremony area and decorated an arbor with a lot of things we found around my sister in law’s house (we had the ceremony and reception there).”
 

What does DIY really mean in terms of saving money or invested time?

 

Photo Credit: Susan Pleiman

Lauren – “While we didn’t spend nearly as much on a wedding as most people do (in the end we spent about $9,000-$10,000 total including attire on a 100 person event), it was still a lot when all was said and done. Every time you turned around you’d be spending money on more things. When you hire someone to do something, like the centerpieces, you just pay money and it’s there looking beautiful. But when you’re doing it yourself, every little piece you envision has to be purchased or found on some crazy scavenger hunt. So it takes a lot more time than you would think.
 

“In addition, I think because we were doing it all ourselves and didn’t really have “deadlines” other than the day of the wedding, procrastination ran high and we spent a lot of the morning of the wedding running around trying to set everything up, finish decorations, run out for last minute items, and just worried about the little things (like not having a tap for the keg!).”
 

RELATED: 3 EASY WAYS TO DIY YOUR WEDDING WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE THE TIME OR CRAFTY GENES
 

What advice do you have for those interested in DIYing their wedding?

Photo Credit: Susan Pleiman

Michelle – “Although being a DIY bride was stressful, and tough, I wouldn’t have changed a thing. As long as you prioritize, and plan things out, you’ll be fine! Lists were my best friend. And get friends to help put things together! Not only does it save you money, but it really puts a sense of self into your wedding. And people will notice. Do not have a cookie-cutter wedding…get your creative juices going!”
 

Lauren – “Don’t be discouraged if things don’t turn out exactly how you envisioned them. Some of the items you see in pictures are nowhere to be found, or crazy expensive! So improvisation can be key in this regard. Just go with the flow. Also, don’t procrastinate! Things will go wrong or not turn out right, but you can eliminate a lot of that if you set a deadline to get everything done, like a week before the big day so you can just relax until the ‘I do!’ ”
 

What advice do you have for those who love the DIY look but don’t have the time or know they don’t have crafty genes?

 

Lauren – “Employ your crafty friends and family! Show them the picture of what you want and ask them to help or bring any creative ideas to the table (even though everyone will already be throwing ideas at you). In terms of making things from Pinterest, don’t expect it to look exactly the same. Go into your crafting knowing it won’t, but that you’re also making things for your own, unique wedding. If you’re determined to have everything looks the same to a T, expect even more money or investing in the help of a professional.”
 

Featured Photo Credit: Susan Pleiman

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Featured Couple: Melissa & Kaveh

Their Love Story…

 

Photo Credit: Emma Cleary Photo & Video

Their story started out as a series of missed moments. Melissa says, “Kaveh and I spent years just missing each other, as a mutual friend kept trying to set us up, but the timing never quite worked for both of us. Then about 4 years ago we were invited to the same holiday party where we met for the first time and have been together ever since.”

 

The Proposal…

 

Their proposal didn’t go quite as planned but worked out perfectly in the end. “Kaveh had been working on planning a proposal for just before my 30th birthday,” Melissa says, “however I got sick and threw a bit of a wrench in his plans. I insisted on staying home to rest up and he switched gears and prepared to do it another time. We ordered sushi and had a picnic in our living room, surrounded by tissues and tea. It was there that he ended up proposing, saying it was those moments that made him want to spend our lives together so what better way to ask.”

 

Wedding Theme…

 

“We didn’t really have a theme,” Melissa says, “but I love rustic elements and pastels.”

Photo Credit: Emma Cleary Photo & Video


 

Why the Hudson Valley?…

 

Melissa says, “I have family that lives in the Hudson Valley and growing up it was always one of my favorite places to visit. With so many happy memories there it was a natural fit for our wedding.”

 

Most Memorable Moment…

 

Melissa says the most memorable moment for her was during their first dance. “It was when my nerves melted away,” she says, “and it was just me and Kaveh surround by our cheering friends and family.”

 

Hudson Valley Professionals…

 

Venue – The Garrison (Garrison)

Photography/VideographyEmma Cleary Photo and Video (New York City)

FloristFloral Fantasies By Sara (Rhinebeck)

HairAnnaliese & Co. (Fishkill)
Makeup
Bridal by Alexandria (Fishkill)

 

Photo Credit to all: Emma Cleary Photo and Video (Click images for larger view)

 

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Top Floral Trends and Your Wedding: What You Need to Know

When it comes to choosing flowers for your wedding day, there are so many options to choose from. Some brides go with their favorite flowers, some want traditional arrangements or pick flowers that hold special meaning to them, yet others want what’s new and trending.

However, it’s clear that one trend, in particular, is sweeping wedding by storm. The shabby-chic, country, vintage, “casual” look is in, and it goes far beyond having an outdoor wedding on a farm with a barn in the background. It’s safe to say that no matter your venue, many brides today want that organic outdoor feel.

With that in mind, we asked Hudson Valley florists how they’re seeing this trend incorporated into today’s weddings.

RELATED: 3 Valuable Tips for Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Florist

 

Bouquets

 

Photo Credit: Floral Fantasies by Sara

Sara Salazar, Owner of Floral Fantasies by Sara in Rhinebeck, says brides are going with bigger bouquets. “Brides are staying away from tiny bouquets or even tight compact bouquets,” she says. “Now they want a loose, airy feeling like they’re (the flowers) freshly picked out of the garden.” This is a trend that started late last year and this looser, more casual feel seems to be continuing into 2017 and beyond. Theresa Colucci, owner of Meadowscent in New Paltz, says, “In the past, there were a lot of mono-botanical arrangements, meaning bouquets and arrangements of all one type of flower. Now, there’s more texture, more use of foliage. The designs are airier and open.”

Steve Morgan, owner and designer of Morgan’s Florist in Poughkeepsie, says when choosing a bouquet, keep in mind that the bouquet needs to compliment the bride and her gown. “No one should say they love the bride’s flowers,” he says, “because the flowers shouldn’t overwhelm or overstate the bride. For example, if a bride’s gown is ornate and really has a lot going on, the arrangement should be simple.”

Textures

 

Colucci mentions textures, which are also playing a huge part in wedding floral trends. What do we mean by texture? The best way to describe this is by thinking of a forest. Forests have all sorts of lush greenery, from plants with smooth leaves, plants with fuller greenery, and lots of twigs and wood. Kathy Herzing, owner of Hyde Park Florist and Gifts, says that forest look is very appealing to couples these days. “Unusual foliage like thistle and succulents” gives bouquets and floral décor that sense of bringing the outdoors in. She says the textures are countered by the softer feel of wildflowers.

Sarah Faoro, owner of Floral Affairs by Sarah in Gardiner, says, “The succulent fad is exploding” and can be found in both bouquets and décor. “Succulents aren’t just a gorgeous addition amongst fresh flowers, but also double as a pretty keepsake.”

Colors

 

Faoro says that a very popular color palette is soft neutrals like blush pinks and blush peaches. “However,” she says, “now we’ll see the addition of deep, rich colors: wine, navy, moss and gray. Also mixed in will be some brighter pops of coral, orange and pink.”

RELATED: 3 Steps You Need to Follow for Choosing Beautiful Wedding Flowers

 

Photo Credit: Floral Fantasies by Sara

Décor

 

Because couples today want that feeling of being outdoors, even if they are inside, Salazar says in barns, industrial-looking venues, even tents, couples are bringing in actual trees to decorate the space to give it more of that outdoorsy feel!

Faoro says trees and large floral displays are seen throughout ceremony and reception spaces. “Couples are opting to invest in giant floral topiaries for either side of the sweetheart table or a lush floral wall to hang at the reception as a photo-op for themselves and guests. Arches and gazebos are being adorned with extravagant garlands and place card tables are greeting guests with show-stopping florals in an effort to ‘wow’ their guests.”

How much does this new trend cost?

 

Well, I have good news and bad news on this. In the past, and if you are a bride that still wants a more traditional look, adding greenery can sometimes save you some money because you are interspersing it throughout substituting the more expensive flowers.

However, because the current trend is to use so much more greenery, you really aren’t saving as much as you would think. Salazar says, “It’s not like we’re doing just a little greenery here and there. The garlands are expensive. People think that by using the greenery, they’re going to be saving money, but they’re not because there’s so much labor that goes into doing a garland.”

However, don’t lose hope yet. There is still a way to save if you want a lot of greenery in your wedding. Salazar says, “What we’ve been doing a lot of is just placing greenery on the table, so you don’t have so much labor and it gives you a similar look.”

Now that Hudson Valley florists have shared these trends with you, what do you think? Are you choosing any of these trends for your wedding or going with a more traditional, formal look? We’d love to know!

Featured Photo Credit: Floral Fantasies by Sara

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3 steps you need to follow for choosing beautiful Wedding Flowers

This is the last of a two-part series

 

I love flowers! Let me just get that out right away. In fact, one of my favorite times of the year in the Hudson Valley is when the flowers start to peep through the frozen ground. It can still be chilly; but as long as I see the flowers start to bloom, it immediately wipes the winter doldrums away. To me, flowers are nature’s perfect package, and they just put a smile on my face. Between their colors, shapes and smells, there’s nothing more beautiful.

 

Photo Credit: Meadowscent

That being said, I couldn’t wait to book my floral appointment for my wedding. Knowing it was the one day where I could surround myself with such beauty made me incredibly happy. Now, here’s the thing: I know what I like, but the names of flowers – outside of the popular roses, calla lilies and carnations – leave me clueless.

 

I didn’t know what flowers I needed to achieve the look I wanted, so I was thrilled to have an expert florist walk me through the process, show me examples of flowers, and tell me the pros and cons of each, including what would be in season (and therefore be cheaper). However, your floral consultation goes far beyond just showing up and talking to the florist. It takes some time to make sure you get the perfect look. We spoke to some of the most experienced florists in the Hudson Valley, and broke the process down into three easy steps.

 

Step 1 – Know your colors

 

Photo Credit: Lucille’s Floral of Fishkill

One of the most important pieces of information you can bring to the consultation is your color scheme. I remember even bringing swatches of fabric of both my gown and my bridesmaids’ gowns with me. Steve Morgan, owner and designer of Morgan’s Florist in Poughkeepsie says the bride’s flowers need to complement her, he says that you also need to know what colors the bridal party will be wearing to ensure all flowers will be cohesive. Theresa Colucci, owner of Meadowscent in New Paltz says because the bulk of her appointment revolves around color, if you don’t have that information at your first visit, then you will need to book a second appointment. She says while it’s very normal for couples to want to start planning right away because they are excited, it’s best to wait until you know what everyone is wearing.

 

Step 2 – Do research and come in with ideas

 

Photo Credit: Lucille’s Floral of Fishkill

Lucille Conforti, owner of Lucille’s Floral of Fishkill, says looking at flowers on websites such as Pinterest, and sharing your board with her, is a great tool to help her get to know the aesthetic and feel you are going for. Morgan wants to see your Pinterest board, too, to work with the ideas you have. He suggests going a step further and doing research on what flowers are in season. Colucci asks, in a pre-appointment questionnaire that she sends out, all photos and Pinterest boards be e-mailed to her so she can prepare and get to know the aesthetic of the couple so the end result is a streamlined floral appointment.

 

Step 3 – Set and share your budget

 

The third, most important piece of information you can bring is your budget, and be honest with it. We’ve mentioned how important a budget is in previous posts, and you might be wondering why we put budget last when it comes to choosing the right flowers. That’s because until you know your colors and do research on what type of flowers you like and see what’s in season, you can’t figure out how much it’s going to cost. If what you like ends up being too expensive for you, you may need an alternate plan. But, don’t worry.

 

Photo Credit: Morgan’s Florist

Like Morgan stated, doing research on what flowers are in season will help save you money. If you want to purchase flowers that are in their “off” season, they can be much pricier than if you buy them in season. All florists are willing to work within your budget, but they need to know what that budget is. If you like a particular flower and it’s not in your budget, Morgan will show you how he can use similar ones to create the same look but aren’t as expensive. By getting your photos and ideas, Colucci will know if your style matches your budget and if not can discuss alternatives to keep you within your desired price point. Conforti will let you bring in your own containers and put arrangements in there, which often times helps couples keep their cost down. A good question to ask florists you interview is to see if you can do the same.

 

What tips do you have in choosing the perfect flowers for your wedding day?

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3 Valuable Tips for Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Florist

Join us in this first part of a two-part series

 

Do you recall ever looking at your parent’s wedding photos or your grandparent’s wedding photos? What are some of the things you remember? Probably what they wore and what their flowers looked like. Flowers, though small in stature, have an amazingly huge impact on your wedding day.

 

Photo Credit: Lucille’s Floral of Fishkill

Not only do they set the mood of your day, they are a hint to your guests as to what kind of wedding to expect; they reflect your personality; they are symbolic and brighten a room with their colors and aroma. In my opinion, it’s impossible to be sad when you are around flowers.

 

Because flowers appear in every part of your day – from your hair (maybe) to bouquets and boutonnieres, bridal party bouquets, ceremony décor and centerpieces – it’s essential to choose a florist who can fulfill your vision. Knowing how to choose the right florist for your wedding day goes far beyond just thinking you will go with a florist you’re kind of familiar with because one of your co-workers got a flower delivery from them one day a few years ago. When it comes time to hiring your florist, just like hiring any wedding professional, you want the best. We know how important it is to connect and “mesh” with all your vendors, and your florist is no exception.

 

We asked some Hudson Valley florists to share their expert advice on how to choose the florist who will create the perfect vision for your wedding day.

 

Meet In Person

 

First, and foremost, talk, in person with your florist. In this day in age, everyone wants to e-mail or call, but nothing beats a face-to-face conversation. Lucille Conforti, owner of Lucille’s Floral of Fishkill, recommends, as with all vendors, choosing a florist with experience and looking at their reviews, but be cautious of them as well. Also, she says, be honest in your conversation with them and make sure you are comfortable with them, their services, and their personality.

 

Photo Credit: Floral Affairs by Sarah

You need to click with their vision and artistry, but you also need to click with them as a person. Sarah Faoro, owner of Floral Affairs by Sarah in Gardiner says, “You should love your florist’s design style. Take some time to scroll through pictures of their work and see if it compliments your wedding vision. Lastly, choose a florist based on their personality. You’re entering into a long-term relationship and want to feel comfortable asking questions and expressing your opinion knowing that you’ll get great service after months of communication. Florists are expert wedding professionals who should be willing to work with clients to fulfill their vision.”

 

Remember, this all goes back to what we spoke about earlier about putting together your “A” team.

 

Experience and Reputation

 

Photo Credit: Meadowscent

Your wedding day is a day you do not get to repeat. Therefore you want to make sure your florist is knowledgeable enough to help guide you and work with you to make your vision a reality. Theresa Colucci, owner of Meadowscent in New Paltz, says by choosing florists who have been around for a while and have a lot of experience, they should easily and willingly be able to share with you references from past couples. Because this is a day where there are no do-overs, you also want to make sure they have the proper insurance and identification.

 

Why is experience, reputation and insurance important? Steve Morgan, owner and designer of Morgan’s Florist in Poughkeepsie, says it’s because you want someone who shows up on time and knows how to handle and fix any problem that may arise. They should be able to handle it smoothly and calmly. They should always have a Plan B.

 

Remember Florists are Artists

 

Photo Credit: Morgan’s Florist

“Remember that floral designers are artists, flowers are their media and every artist has their own style,” says Faoro. From experience, when speaking to almost any of your wedding professionals, it’s safe to say they all would consider themselves artists in the own field – floral designers, especially. Anyone can put flowers in a vase or grab a bunch and tie them together, but it takes real skill to make them look good and tie them cohesively into a vision, feel, and mood. It takes an artist to know how the height, shape and structure of a flower compliments the rest in a bunch. Think of choosing the work your florist does like choosing a piece of art. How do you feel when you see their work? Does it move you? Make you feel compelled to want more? Can you see their design fitting into the aesthetic of your day? Does it complement your vision? If so, that would be a good indication to consider that florist.

 

How did you choose your florist? What moved you to hire them to decorate your wedding?

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